Since i’m able to talk about anything, I chose to talk about life, and us as people individually…
We all have secrets and demons that we have to live with everyday, it may be all in the past, or just recently but regardless, we all have something that we’re not able to talk about. What does it take to open up and get past the things that continue to haunt us?
We’ve all heard that talking to someone can help, that we have friends and family that can be spilled too in order to help. People to talk to:
3. Close friends
What is 100% trust?
First off, this is just my opinion about everything in general, i’m in no way trying to advise anyone on their problems. Psychologists are paid hourly to talk to people and help them with their problems, but do they really care? I understand that there are ones out there that will go the extra mile for their patients but in general, do they think about your problems once you’ve left the office or even the room..? I guess i just have a hard time believing in someone who is “paid” to gain your trust and let them into our deepest thoughts and secrets.
For me, opening up and giving 100% trust means that without thinking about it, you can rely on someone for anything, anything at all. I guess it may just be me, but finding someone that is able to gain that much trust in anyone, is extremely hard to find if not impossible. For me, there’s always that possibility that once you open up, the person that you’ve been talking to is going to be gone; Moved onto someone else, or just won’t be there anymore because they’re too busy, or “forgot about you”. This is why I say it’s too hard to give 100% trust, because it means that you’re giving yourself to someone completely, making it seem like you as a person are naked, and are any of us stable that way? We all need that security that once something happens, you have a little bit of dignity and a part of yourself that you haven’t given up to hold onto. Almost like a stuffed animal, we all need or have something that we keep for only ourselves.
“It won’t be like this for long”- Darius Rucker
This is the line that most people live by. Going to work or school, or both every day and hoping that everything is going to get better, maybe finding that one person that will help change their life around for the better, giving them a new perspective on life, and will make everything clear. A lot of people find that special someone, but most don’t. Is it due to low self-esteem, anxiety, or the fact of giving up after so many failed attempts that this happens? Everyone deserves to be happy with their path on life, and finding someone to help walk that line makes the wait worth it. What is one way that you can think of to help people open up, or make the attempt to find someone in the world we live in?